We're very far apart on this issue. I feel like you must not drink socially, so you're not exposed to the milder effects of alcohol. Alcohol enables both social and anti-social behavior. It doesn't have to be black and white.
I have an alcohol free home (I have seen too many friends slowly change from one small drink a night to a problem within a few years.
I have seen too many devastating consequences of “social” drinking to think it is safe. Of course we all mostly do unsafe things regularly!