But while I don't necessarily agree with the messages of all the above, I do think they have done one thing that seemingly everyone else has ignored. They understand that men have feelings, need a purpose, and need to feel useful, and they provide outlets for those feelings in a way society at large is not. The political culture in the United States has become so split that we can't even talk about these issues without someone being labelled an incel, or part of the patriarchy. It's a shame because it's causing a lot of men to feel disenfranchised, which causes them to seek validation from sources that are willing to provide it, which don't always have their best interests in mind.