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So he’s had a string of partners leave him due to working weekends, and his “wife of 7+ years” has also now divorced him.

“It’s not that bad” says the guy leaving a trail of women in the wake of his career.

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I think you are reading too much into it. All I shared is something that helped me find a partner who enjoyed who I am and understood my priorities. I was hoping to help. The advice sure would have helped me earlier in life.

Most people can’t be honest with themselves about their own goals, let alone with a potential spouse.

For example, most people’s goal is closer to “work just enough to live comfortably” than they’d like to admit, I suspect.

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