I really, really, don't think the consumers care about that at all. They were never asked and they have no choice in it.
People care about things looking nice. In particular, people who pay others to create websites also obviously want their stuff to stand out, look nicer, and "pop" more than the competition - and the things the person you replied to listed is part of that.
Todays pages do not "pop", they abuse.
... yes, and welcome to this thread which is about alternatives that tries to avoid that.