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"You might consider simply finding what you love, and letting the rest take care of itself" - Man, what a great advice. Let's apply it to relationship: "You might consider simply finding Mr/Miss Right, and the rest take care of itself".

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Exactly. There's a lot good about this post but this business of "finding what you love" is meaningless. There is no one thing you love. Just like there is no Mr/Mrs Right. The good advice in this blog is that the secret to succeeding at something is to stop analyzing why you're failing and do it _as if_ you love it, as if you're doing it because you love it. That also happens to be the secret to a good relationship.

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