Everyone is non-binary. The culture-bound stereotypes that are attached to and imposed upon female and male aren't enacted fully by anyone. One does not need an additional identity outside of woman or man to do this.
I've tried on man and woman. Both cause dysphoria the same way the wrong binary does for binary trans people. There are aspects of one or the other I do mesh with, but I've talked to enough enbies and binary trans and cis people to be confident that one does in fact need an additional identity to cover it. My experience is unlike that of the many men and women I've talked to about this.
This is not something I casually glommed on to and never considered again. I've thought about it more than you likely have. You can't "everyone is the same maaaaan" this away.
My choices are my own and I do not presume to judge anyone else's choices. But “thrown-ness” is not an indication of your sexuality (edit: or gender) - it’s an indication of your humanity.
Edit: the person who replied to me does not want me reply to them. Ideally, I’ve already said enough. Pedantically, you can assume “sexuality and gender” is the implication of the word “sexuality” above. Requiring homework or ideological preagreement before “being allowed to have an opinion” is among the most concerning things I’ve read that has been written in my lifetime.
I'm going to stop you right there. I didn't say that. Let's back up to the post you replied to.
>> "Everyone is non-binary. The culture-bound stereotypes that are attached to and imposed upon female and male aren't enacted fully by anyone. One does not need an additional identity outside of woman or man to do this."
This isn't about "the human experience." This is about a specific human experience that you may have, but clearly need to process a bit more before you go around trying to dismiss--or participate in the dismissal--of others' experiences.
You do not know what you don't know and you reveal that in conflating gender and sexuality.
edit: I already responded to their post, so I won't be discussing this further. I've said all there is to say.