I get that you are arguing from personal experiences, people you met and worked with. But this statement lacks context and nuance.
There are developers who don't like PHP because of outdated reasons and possibly because they are snobs. Sure, that's a red flag.
But there are many who have so many battle scars and war stories with the language and its ecosystem that they decided it's just not worth the pain anymore. Even though PHP has evolved (with regular breaking changes...) and tries its best to put something useful on top of a shaky foundation: The effort required to make PHP work with you, in comparison to other languages, becomes too large and painful. I'm not talking about superficial things here, nor do I have the tendency to overengineer stuff, quite the contrary. I'm talking about writing simple, robust and efficient code.
However I would say there are three very good reasons why you should use or at least consider the language:
- You want to quickly hack together something useful with minimal fuss, AKA its original purpose.
- Buy-in of the OO, code generation, IoC/DI, magic framework stuff that Laravel/Symphony provide.
- You have to.