The software is completely and utterly unusable for me. It reminds me of when I used to help my grandparents with technology, except now I am the grandparent. Nothing works like I'd expect and I just find it frustrating.
There are Android phones in a similar price range and I'm not really tempted to buy any of them. I would buy an iPhone running Android though.
Which I guess is an option by this afternoon at least.
My Samsung phone is 3 years old, it got 3 major updates over these years, and last update was 29/03/2023, a little more than a month ago. It also didn't slow a bit over time.
People making a cult out of some common industry standards are tiring really. Sure, Apple lead the way with those standards (and destroyed some when it was profitable for them too), but that happened ages ago. You might as well remember some Android phones from 10 years ago and compare them to iPhone 14.
As a side-note, you've used your comment to remember some Apple devices from 13 years ago and compared them to an Android device bought in 2020.