Isolation leads to paranoia.
There has to be some context here because the way you worded this implies what I consider "normal" is completely inconceivable to you.
I think many people also don’t think someone they don’t know has the right to speak to them just because they have their phone number.
Meanwhile, I receive half a dozen spam calls on some days.
So logically for me, it makes little sense to respond to unknown numbers. I presume the OP is in the same boat.
As a result, I as a European cannot fathom how one can even live a life with a phone in America, while for Americans it's unfathomable that we would actually use our phones as phones by answering calls.
Otherwise it’s all about my extended warranties and other scams.