This is only an issue when we have a democrat as president: https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/gop-debt-ceiling-trump-pre...
You'd think that indeed (dems are indeed, in a long leftist tradition, always ready, willing and eager to spend other people's money).
But, very unfortunately, the last few so-called "fiscal conservative" presidents have been anything but:
https://www.thebalancemoney.com/us-debt-by-president-by-doll...
I agree. You might read some tea leaves and conclude that democrats or republicans are better from this article. I got the impression that the parties are very similar. There is no party that is the "obvious" choice. The debt goes up either way.
My only opinion is that the republican party is behaving far far more childish in public.