Although there are multiple bottlenecks, my understanding (and why at a certain point, throwing more threads doesn't work) is that inference for dense LLMs are largely limited by memory bandwidth. Most desktop computers will have dual channel DDR4/DDR5 memory which will be hard pressed to get >60GB/s. A last-gen Epyc/Threadripper Pro should have 8 channel memory DDR4-3200 support, which should get you a theoretical max of 204.8 GB/s (benchmarking ends up more around 150GB/s in AIDA64).
The latest Genoa has 12 channel DDR5-4800 support (and boosted AVX-512) and I'd imagine should perform quite well, but if you primarily want to run inference on a quantized 65B model, I think you're best bang/buck (for local hardware) would be 2 x RTX 3090s (each of those has 24GB of GDDR6X w/ just shy of 1TB/s of memory bandwidth).