> Do you also think women should not be allowed to wear revealing clothes, lest they get raped?

No. Nor have I said anything like that.

> People deserve to be themselves without getting raped, or bullied.

Sure, but we don't live in a world where such things can be completely prevented. Therefore, every person has a responsibility to take reasonable precautions for their own safety and well-being.

Derailing conversations about what people can or should have done to avoid being victimized with accusations of "victim blaming" is actually quite infantilizing and perpetuates vulnerability.