Do you also think women should not be allowed to wear revealing clothes, lest they get raped? I hope not. People deserve to be themselves without getting raped, or bullied.
No. Nor have I said anything like that.
> People deserve to be themselves without getting raped, or bullied.
Sure, but we don't live in a world where such things can be completely prevented. Therefore, every person has a responsibility to take reasonable precautions for their own safety and well-being.
Derailing conversations about what people can or should have done to avoid being victimized with accusations of "victim blaming" is actually quite infantilizing and perpetuates vulnerability.
Until you understand that, there can be no meaningful discussion. If you continue making accusations and demands, expect to be flagged.