A number is represented in set theory as a set that contains all of the numbers before it. 0, 1, 2 is {}, {{}}, {{} {{}}}...
SO! If you start with a finite "a" and increment it infinite times, you still have infinity; you haven't broken out.
But if you start with Infinity, then adding anything to it gives you {Infinity}, {Infinity {Infinity}}, etc...
Transfinite addition is not commutative!