Everyone who is saying that Qt is too expensive -> It's free. Just Use LGPL. All the tools are GPL but that doesn't matter if you don't want to link against those. The Libraries itself are LGPL so you can dynamically link against them with attribution.
Everyone who is saying that they need the Qt Support -> You probably don't. If you live on the bleeding edge you sometimes get cut. Qt for all its flaws really is fine. And if you get stuck the community will help out just as good.
Everyone who is saying that they already bought into it -> Bad news for you. The license terms of the commercial license are very restrictive. If you are building an application which communicates over a network or building a system which consists of multiple programs you have to make sure you don't integrate or communicate with a program which uses the LGPL variant[0]. Yes that's right, if you pay them money you better make sure that you never run your program on KDE because it would inadvertently communicate with software that you are not allowed to communicate with. Of course you are allowed to communicate with everyone while using the LGPL.
ALWAYS use the LGPL variant! Unless you are not able to work within the boundaries of it.
If you have to spend money you are better off donating to the KDE Free Qt Foundation.
[0]https://embeddeduse.com/2023/01/06/using-qt-5-15-and-qt-6-un...