I have a 2019 Outback as well. I just went through some battery dying issues. Took it to the dealership, they said that the Onstar module (after 2-3 years) will start to malfunction and create a parasitic drain.

The only fixes they have (as of a couple weeks ago) was to a) buy a new module (which are on back order because a number of peeps are having this problem) -- which will eventually break because they haven't reengineered it. b) disconnect the Onstar module via a circuit (my tweeters are on the same circuit, so I'd lose them) c) Open up the center console and only disconnect the Onstar module.

I opted for C (which I was charged an hour of labor for). The tech there said to check back in every few months to see if Subaru puts out a new module that fixes the issue.

Edit: The tech told me the Onstar module was a specific issue with 2019 Outback/Legacy, and that 2018 and back doesn't have that problem and in 2020 they redesigned the whole model, so the newer ones don't have that issue.