If you're saying that it is not possible to change the details enough to avoid the model being able to answer that type of question, I think you are admitting that the model has learned a generalized ability to answer questions of that class, and is not actually using its memory to answer at all.
I don't care about whether it learned that generalized ability from seeing examples of the question and answer, which it then deduced an algorithm for and generalized -- that's how most people learn most things.