Someone wrote a script that disassembled all the binaries on their Linux machine and counted the number of actual instructions used (mostly by gcc, of course). Only a tiny fraction of the total instructions were used:
http://0x80.pl/notesen/2014-01-01-instruction-utilization.ht...
Just take the top 30 of that chart and learn those. The x86 contains a lot of instructions that no one needs to worry about. Things related to the ancient segment mode or x87 floating point, OS-privileged instructions (context switching, HLT/LIDT/etc.), AMD-only 3DNow, etc.
The ISA is not the hard part anyway. Dealing with the ABI (System V on Linux) to interface with C/C++ code, the kernel syscall interface, position independent code/executable (PIC/PIE) are somewhat bigger concerns and are going to apply to RISC as well.
Modern AMD CPUs don't support it either, so it's entirely dead
AArch64 is more like regular than reduced instruction set computing. Its a very big complicated ISA but also not a complete mess like X86.
RISC-V is reduced by these standards but requires a very real instruction count penalty. The compressed ISA performs it's job admirably, do keep in mind, but I think it remains to be seen if some of the aggressively simple/clean aspects of risc-v end up hurting it.