> Why would you assume it's not both?
I do not believe parent assumes that, but rather states they hope it's not the latter on its own (or at least not a major driver in the decision process).
I do not believe parent assumes that, but rather states they hope it's not the latter on its own (or at least not a major driver in the decision process).
It's the same as all my non-white and/or female colleagues are considerably more often asked to visit career fairs and outreach programs at schools and universities. All of them know it's neither their people skills nor their undeniable ability that puts them front and center, and they hate it.