Concretely answering the questions asked:
1. At various points I spent a lot of time maintaining, but now it's just a static blog deployed via Github Actions onto a Github Page. I haven't done any meaningful changes in a few years, and the changes are for fun, not necessity
2. I got my first job in tech thanks to blogging: https://lethain.com/datahub/
3. My blogging has made it possible to write two pretty successful books: https://staffeng.com/book/ and https://press.stripe.com/an-elegant-puzzle (working on a third now)
4. Hard to assess, but I believe I've been able to subtly but meaningfully advance the technology industry through my writing :-)
5. A significant majority of folks are unaware that I write, and that's great! I don't think impact depends on folks connecting their colleague to the writer or whatnot