It's very frustrating to be /in/ the gap. Bay Area homeowners act like the apocalypse is coming if increased supply means poors who /only/ make 100k are allowed to buy next to them. The horror. The humanity.
Still, we are a couple nearing our 40s, it seems insane to me that we need to "settle down" for a 1 bedroom flat while making ~3x the median local income.
Have you looked at how many people need to commute there to work because they can’t afford to live there
https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/23/realestate/owning-renting...
To live (with long term attachment and commitment) at a place, people want something that is decent and new-ish and much bigger than a 1B condo. Especially given how laborious and costly the buying and selling process.