My bad, I meant OP in regards to whom you directly responded to (emphasis mine)
> they will _probably realize_ years later that they were abused.
> they will _probably realize_ years later that they were abused.
Their "probably" was about them probably realizing, not probably being abused.
OP was absolute in their accusation of abuse in his above post that I quoted.
That's why I asked them for specific examples.