Hence not so comitted into a relationship.
That's a bit unclear. Would you be ok to expand on that? :)
A big trend right now in Latin America is 'quiero toxico/a'(I want a toxic(person)) , they paste it all over their vehicles, clothing and whatnot.
You will see women wearing shirts that say 'soy toxica'(I'm toxic).
They literally want someone who hits them, gets jealous, all the bad stereotypes.
Having lived that myself, I firmly believe it's because they have never actually been with someone like that.
They think they want it till their car ends up destroyed, clothes on fire, or one/both in jail.
I just cannot fathom willing that stuff into your life, but some people are what's known as 'addicted to chaos'.
Wonder what's led to that, and how that'll work out over time...? :)
I've known many men who like "crazy" women too. She stabbed him with a butcher knife? Forever in love.
Have you ever entertained the idea that _that_ US mindset might be part of the problem?