You literally just drive around for 5ish minutes and you find a spot. Ive lived in two major cities in america fwiw.
* circling the block over and over until you find a spot.
* making sense of the layered rules on parking signs to make sure you can park
* finding the parking stall and/or downloading the app to pay for parking.
* making sure you have no valuables visible and each car ahead and behind have enough space to get out.
This is experience based off living in DC, NY, and the Bay Area. I’m actually OK paying for a car - but I have an absolutely no time for parking and traffic.
Just an anecdote to cancel out your anecdote.
This assumes the public transportation is competently run, which is a rarity in the Anglophone world. In the UK I think the only good one is TfL.
Meanwhile Birmingham has a million people and no metro.
The one time I visited NYC the subway seemed third world.
Sure, there are plenty of areas where it would be really difficult. But there are also a lot more places than just London where it's perfectly possible, depending on family circumstances and lifestyle choices.
Two big differences in country design:
- in the UK, I felt like I could get to any town by transit. I imagine that isn't strictly true, but compared to the US, where I live in a half a state that's entirely devoid of any trains... big improvement
- UK cities are walkable, that is you can generally get anywhere just on foot. In the US cities I've lived in, downtown generally supports foot traffic, but as you get further out the sidewalks disappear, get scarier, and never have anyone walking around then.