I would try and find a way transfer all my assets to my children and/or spouse, and ensure they would never list me as a dependent anywhere. I'm not clear if the nursing home can take your spouse's assets or not. If so we would need to file for divorce to protect her assets.
I would essentially go broke and let medicade pay for my care. Sure they don't put you in in the "finest" facility, but pretty soon you'll be far enough gone it won't matter. The expensive places are just widow dressing anyway. You are treated the same everywhere.
Nobody was after their money. No one was trying to rip them off. The hospice care was kind and supportive.
Why do have some idea that a nursing home is going take you money? I’ve never heard of these situations outside of Reddit.
At the same time, by the time it becomes a question, odds are the patient may be showing symptoms where it isn't a question if anything is wrong, but whether or not what they have is treatable (that we know something was seriously wrong was the case for both my grandmothers). Perhaps being able to rule Alzheimer's out will be helpful in that respect.
I'm sure some would like it so they could plan their assisted suicide, many who have seen someone suffer alzheimer's would prefer not to, based on my conversations.
If there is no cure in my lifetime, then as an act of final service to humankind - study me. Use my data as progressive snapshots, the more snapshots there are, the sooner we find the cure!
https://www.nytimes.com/2012/06/10/magazine/an-alzheimers-ge...