> you really should never ever use a company like Facebook as a vital component of your business.
Like Facebook - by which you mean Facebook, Google and Twitter, I suppose?
So what are you supposed to do, exactly? Hand out fliers door to door? Create your own social network?
These large corporations have inserted themselves into every single part of our lives as a gatekeeper. They believe that they have no responsibility to actually treat their clients with fairness, and they have made sure of that by having no way to actually reach anyone who can change anything. And yet for a small business, they have no choice.
The system was designed entirely by these big companies to make sure that these big companies could do exactly as they pleased, giving us no recourse except legal action.
What you are doing is called blaming the victim and it isn't very nice. Morally, ethically, _and legally_, this system is wrong. Facebook is the villain here, not this man who used Facebook in exactly the way they advertise to us to do so.