You have to make it probable, which is very different from proving. A rule favoring consumers, something like "there isn't an excess of scratches" is sufficient in most cases, where the alternative would require an excessive cost in further analysis (read: all electronics).
> If you import the component from outside the EU the law doesn't even apply, as you have formed a contract with a trader not bound by this law.
The seller is advertising _and_ shipping his product to the EU, therefor he is bound by its laws. He even features specific advise to EU consumers.
> But in this case it's all irrelevant because the item sold is basically a spare-part
This is just nonsense. It's sold direct to consumers, it's a consumer product.