>I hope you all suffer like I had to suffer.
I'm sorry for the ill-minded advice you got, but not everyone in tech is an asshole.
By definition a very small minority has Ivy-league, trust fund-brat backgrounds. There are people from all walks of life, many like yours, and not few that would think _you_ are spoiled and entitled - I've seen developers from Gaza posting on HN, for instance. Give that a thought before wishing suffering for all.