Youtube clickbait is exactly the kind of thing where "Downside of thing you thought was good" is likely to thrive. It's practically a genre (there's also "positive aspect of thing you thought was bad" for balance).
Fundamentally, there's a paper trail. Disney has bought credits from The Nature Conservancy. If it turns out that those credits are a scam, then we know who sold them and who bought them. There's a whole business plan setting out the case that can be reviewed by independant third parties or governments as time goes by. There's an actual forest you can visit. We can see what a market price is, and be suspicious of people claiming to have a low price compared with anyone else. We can sue companies that claim to provide one thing but don't deliver.
This is all very boring and nerdy. But it works, after a fashion. Even the videos you link, they're only really able to exist because of that paper trail.
I was going to compare this with the "additionality" debate around buying "green" energy, and remembered that Google did some good work on making sure they were getting additionality from the renewables they purchased, here's their stance on the offsets they buy:
https://static.googleusercontent.com/media/www.google.com/en...
If Google doesn't fit then there's probably some organisation that you trust to not mess this up that has done similar.
> Conclusion
>In addition to improving our efficiency and investing in green power, we will continue to purchase
carbon offsets to bring our carbon footprint down to zero. However, not all carbon offsets are
created equal and ensuring that a carbon offset represents actual greenhouse gas reductions can be
a long process.
> Carbon offsets are still very new. In fact, it’s entirely possible that how we offset our emissions
a few years from now will be very different from how we do it today. Our offsets may be more
personalized, more local and rely on emergent technologies that have a global impact. Google hopes
to be part of the evolution of these new offsets, and will continue to foster current offset projects
through research, collaboration and investment