The whole approach to updates in the FOSS community needs a rethink imho. Security is obviously an overarching imperative and people have been conditioned to do their part (update frequently) but the user experience keeps deteriorating.
There are constant updates, there is no distinction of whether they are imprortant or not (applies across the board of stores) but on on f-droid some developers seem to ne pushing things nightly. They get larger over time (KDE is now several GB as somehow almost everything must be updated every month) or they need app-by-app approval (f-droid)
Throwing out some ideas: initiate the concept of security updates (microsoft has it for ages). Bundle other updates in time (eg monthly). And definetely allow the user to have a set of apps that dont need individual approval all the time.