Meanwhile, Turkish men are the most metrosexual in the world, and let's just say it 's easier to get laid in Taksim than it is in the Castro. I feel that Istanbul is actually a far gayer city than San Francisco, but everybody stays in the closet in order to survive.
You have a funny concept of free.
If I am not free to be exactly who I am, then I am not free.
If I am forced to follow a religion under penalty of death, I am not free.
If I am forced to not leave that religion under penalty of death, I am not free.
If I am forced to be straight, I am not free.
A free nation allows everybody to be free, not just the mainstream.