The whole concept of dating "websites" is bunk. We need a social video chat app where you can publicly ask questions or make statements, and people can make video replies which can be swiped through in a tiktok style, which also has geo-awareness and some basic personality profile information.
By being video only and gating it securely through the app you'd eliminate catfishing and a lot of the hard misrepresentation you see on dating sites. Having conversations be public by default and needing permission to DM would also help limit bad male behavior.