In your case, did it end up being worth it in the end?
My suggestion there is to think of a plausible fib that won't raise flags. You could make up a consulting jaunt or maybe a dying relative you had to take care of. Or just say you needed a sabbatical. This might seem unethical, but my read is that employers really _want_ to see you "act normal", which in our society means lying about certain things in a professional context.
This comment is encouraging, thank you.
In short, it's hard to tell whether something that seems awful now might not turn out to be good in the long run.