https://domesticviolenceresearch.org/domestic-violence-facts...
I grew up in rural Appalachia, and I can tell you that the most common response to someone, say, being called a stupid bitch, is not to channel the eternal words of Marcus Aurelius or to center ones self like the Buddha, as might be the case for your average HN poster.
Exactly, considering that in almost every societal metric that matters men do worse than women sexism against men is much worse, nothing symmetric.
Incredible how the same critic is never moved against women when engage in the same kind of Newspeak. Let's remember that "speech as violence" was not invented by men.