You can't express the equivalent of Linux's rcu_dereference primitive in a way that avoids data races without using memory_order_acquire (or memory_order_consume, which is treated like memory_order_acquire in all implementations, and is fundamentally broken as I link to in my sibling reply). With a memory consistency model weaker than TSO (e.g. ARM, RISC-V, POWER), this imposes unnecessary overhead and eliminates some of the benefits of RCU.
To work around this flaw, you can use inline assembly, implementation-specific "compiler-only" barriers, etc. but that's outside of the language. It also forces the compiler to be much more pessimistic about optimizations than is actually necessary to preserve dependency ordering.