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For the parent: this is very much not appreciated here on HN. Take it elsewhere.
Or not, because while you were always working, working, working, you never had the chance to build up a real relationship and that golddigger who does one day agree to merry you, will exploit you and leave you broken and divorced in a ditch, with children in therapy, because you noticed too late, because you were occupied.
Life is also a competition, but not just that. Mainly it is about finding a healthy balance.