The presenter says that you should not write native Wayland clients at all but use either Gtk or Qt.
Which is not really something that can be said about the big toolkits which tend to dictate how execution happen.
But that attitude certainly seems common among the people that build compositors. Having more alternative implementations would be very healthy for the environment.
It makes sense because Wayland was invented for the purpose of forcing hobbyists and power users into ecosystems that are 100% corporate controlled.