It's not clear to me as an outsider what exactly the Apache foundation is doing for these projects. It feels like Apache is willing to accept code donations from anyone and is willing to attach the foundation's name to code that isn't widely used, actively maintained, or may just be abandonware.
I have soooo much more confidence in CNCF projects. The conditions for graduating as a CNCF project include criteria like that your project must be in use by multiple real companies, have maintainers who are (paid) employees of multiple different companies, and get a professional security audit.