It's insanely wasteful, destructive, short-sighted and, most of all, cruel.
If I had to describe the US in one sentence, that would be it. If I had to present an example of how paradoxically destructive the system is in the US, I'd pick her story, because it's oddly reflective of probably most stories I hear out of the US. Great deeds marred by evil, intentional or not.
I mean basically everyone I know is either a first, second, or third gen immigrant.
If I tell you not to go to the top of mount Everest as you will die and no one will come save you, then you choose to go to the top of Everest and freeze is who is at fault? The Nepal government or you? Imo that is 100% your fault.
Apparently it’s been like this for a long time too.
And I can tell you this: If I were to have children, they are going to have plenty more opportunity here than they would if I still lived in the US. Even if they are poor, they are likely to have food, housing, and medical care.
If you lack things like food, housing, and medical care, moving to the US might seem like a viable option, though.
High wages (or any income at all) can lure people into all sorts of situations. It is those that have that power to act responsible.
You would not believe the pure economic calculations and soullessness that my northern European country visits upon refugees and migrants. The State is an all powerful and all encompassing entity that crushes anyone in its path.