Sometimes I have to force myself to take a little time and remember that these times are impressionable to my kids. They are gonna remember holidays. Maybe not perfectly but the gist them.
What did we value? Spending time with them? Something else?
It can be a good (but hard) thing to disengage and remember what’s important.
Even things like dishes, housework, going on walks—these are things that you can encourage them in. They can see your joy in them.
We do this with walks—it's also one of the main reasons why we have a Switch game console. Games like Mario Kart 8 are fun for the older kids but even younger kids can "play along" and not be a burden to the rest of the folks playing.
What's counter intuitive in some of this is that initially your enjoyment in these things _will be lower_. You're gonna have to slow down your walk. Take extra time to explain things. Let them try and fail. Sometimes you'll have redo what they've done. But what matters most is that they are included. They are part of the family—and their time with you and with the family is valued.