We fundamentally disagree on how removing film grain, or changing things like saturation, affects end user experience. I don't believe it harms the viewing experience in a meaningful way. I respect that you care about artists' intent, but I think you're assuming more people care or notice than actually do. I don't believe adhering so strictly to the artists' intent will lead to a better watching experience. For some films where only a 1080p master remains, if you don't denoise before upscaling and then adding in artificial film grain, it'll look terrible.
There is an endless list of poor Bluray and UHD Bluray transfers where the the film grain makes it unwatchable. The unfortunate thing is that the nicer the display is, the sharper the image and the more distracting the grain. In some cases, I would trust the AV1 endcoder decoder to do a better job at adding a more reasonable amount of grain than the 4k transfer did. It's not a slippery slope, bad transfers and poorly color graded films/shows already exist. Mistakes exist in both directions, the UHD remaster release of Terminator 2 is a exceptionally horrible example of too much DNR. In my opinion T2 is bad enough to bring real actors into the uncanny valley.
The developers aren't doing anything different from what films do when going through an analog to digital transfer.