Filter 1. If we had no large moon, roughly every 30 million years or so our axial tilt would become too extreme for life. We do not have another example of a planet with a moon to rival ours in relative size.
Filter 2. Without Jupiter acting as a cosmic vacuum cleaner, we'd predictably be hit by enough asteroids and comets that we'd never have evolved. In thousands of solar systems that we've found, we've found lots with rocky planets, and lots with gas giants. Ours is the only system with BOTH rocky planets AND gas giants.
Filter 3. Supernovas are dangerous. For example we are currently in the Local Bubble. Which is the result of a supernova about 4 million years ago which would have wiped us out if we were this close when it happened. Luckily for us we have a weird orbit where we only pass through the galactic plane every 30 million years or so, and spend most of our time well away from potential supernovas.
Filter 4. Planets need to be in the habitable zone, around a star where that zone remains habitable for a very long period. Most solar systems have no suitable planet.
Putting these together on a back of the envelope, it is likely that we're the only solar system in our galaxy which is likely to remain habitable and stable for long enough that complex intelligent life could evolve.