I’m talking about physical attractiveness. It’s largely up to genetics. You can help a little by going to the gym or dressing nice but it’s not gonna turn a 3 into a 7.
I don’t have the slightest clue what you look like, but if you have an able body, I promise you I’d trade however you look for the functionality of your body. Seriously, I miss being able to participate in real life so much. I’d gladly become whatever you think a “2” is for a working body.
I’m lucky I live in a country where sex work is legal. Otherwise I might still feel suicidal.
I don’t think internet advice or trying to show people how they aren’t that bad of is helpful or even appropriate for HN. Just say “I’m sorry it hasn’t worked out for you”.
Anyway, does your target market want a guy with a house and job? That’s what first gen immigrants want. (Or what second-gen’s parents want, which matters too.) The local middle class want that to be assumed and you actually appear to spend all your time on volunteering and hobbies.
It’s not that important though. The real part is keeping the relationship going, not finding it.
Also, have you seen Pete Davidson? He looks like a drowned rat.
In particular, taller women don’t care.
Do that and practice talking to women, and then you're attractive.
Some of the guys I know who get the most women are not particularly handsome at all, they just do a lot of talking to women and thus are good at leading the conversion to where it needs to go.
I'm sure you are aware of a subculture of men who go out in town to meet women. All they're doing is practicing a lot.