While I agree that there really aren't any winners in a war from a humanitarian perspective, it really doesn't feel here like we are losing.
I'm happy to pay a lot for electricity and gas if that means the Russian government will fall and their army will be reduced to shreds (although the gas prices right now are almost the same as they used to be before the war... )
Also to the US, this is an incredibly cheap (it's what, $50B this year?) way of bringing the Russian army to it's knees.