And by looking it's coming from my desktop, I mean the tcpdump was run directly on my desktop and I saw the traffic there. So I assume it had to be routed through my desktop unless I am missing something.
sudo lsof -n -i :4500
Wi-Fi can work the same way, though it sometimes requires an extra step to place your machine's network card into "promiscuous mode" in order to see traffic neither to or from your machine.