Thanks for sharing some examples! Funnily I'm trying to develop some of the traits and encourage my more humble friends to do the same.

For example, I find that not believing I deserve anything actually led to people treating me badly in the past. And developing a healthy dose of "I deserve this" mentality has improved my day-to-day interactions and even relationships.

Another thing I learnt much later in life was that wanting success is the first step of... success, and there is nothing wrong with grand dreams.

Maybe I need a narcissist friend and exchange notes.