Despite #metoo, my sister was raped by her boss, and since she took more than a day to go to the hospital, not enough evidence of violence could be found. The police and her lawyer told her she had to wait until two more girls complain to the police.
I was a youth camp counselor, just don't be a creep with youglings and you're fine. Keep the doors open though.
I made a friend leave her abusive boyfriend by hosting her for four months. I would've done the same if she had a kid, but I'm happy there is social services to help women without support in the same situation.
And I disagree. I used to be fat (32 BMI), and had no that much trouble finding new dates, but it still wasn't easy. Now I'm still too heavy for what I want to do, but more built than fat, 'manly' if you will (sharper face at least, and defined arms muscles), and it's way, way easier. I don't have to seek outside my interest groups to find partners anymore. Manliness is still highly sought imho.