> using this vernacular diminishes and marginalizes the immense suffering of humans caught in an actual war for any reason.
I don’t know that anyone (or at least a sizeable number of people) in an actual war views it this way.
What is the causal link in your mind?
Should we also ban the phrase “I’m starving”? What about “I’m sick and tired…”? Upping the intensity factor, what about “the underdog annihilated the #1 ranked player”?