In order to decide to go into crypto trading you need to have an extremely high tolerance for risk. The crypto industry is self-selected for risk in the first place, you don't need complex explanations of why they use lots of leverage on highly volatile assets, that's literally the reason why they're there. If SBF had a low appetite for risk he wouldn't have entered crypto or started a start up, he would have stayed in trad-fi getting paid massive sums of money for some fairly basic quant work. It's not that Sam has a high risk appetite, it's that in order to get into the position Sam was in you need a high risk appetite.
And that obviously poses a big problem for people who want to use a crypto exchange - because they can only find exchanges run by people with a massive risk appetite making it likely to blow up in your face.