There are plenty of examples of matriarchal societies, both in the past and current. The problem with people like you is that you feel entitled to tell others where their place is in the world, and thank god the world is slowly turning against that kind of nonsense.

Do you think women have always been the secondary “submissive” gentile gender? There’s a lot of cultures and a lot of history.

This is similar to people saying trans people have never existed. Instead of seeing the western world as abnormally sexist, homophobic, and transphobic. IE the way the British treated hijras (men identifying with feminine traits) when they took over India in the late 1800s. Before and since then (though this is affected by how awful the British were), hijras weren’t treated equally, but much better than the abusive and bigoted Europeans.